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75% Of Married People Say They’re Unhappy

Recently I read that when questioned, 25% of married people said they were happily married. I was floored by this statistic. On the surface, it makes a strong argument against marriage but if you go just a little bit deeper, might it be something else? I think so. I think people have unreasonable expectations of … Continue reading “75% Of Married People Say They’re Unhappy”

Aquarius – Rebel Love

“Pictured: Not actually an Aquarius” Aquarians. They’re iconoclasts, humanitarians, freedom-fighters, and one of the best partners you can imagine. Wait, really? Aren’t Aquarians aloof, cerebral lone wolves who are more interested in friendship than love? Don’t they spend a little too much time watching conspiracy videos on YouTube and rebelling against The Man to be … Continue reading “Aquarius – Rebel Love”

Weekend Love Forecast – ROAR For Fun, It’s A Game!

Venus is moving into aspects with Jupiter, Neptune, and Saturn. None of them will be exact this weekend, but all are close enough to experience keenly. Friday, Saturday, and most of Sunday, the Moon transits Jupiter-ruled Sagittarius. Sunday the Moon hits Saturn-ruled Capricorn, starting the run-up to Tuesday’s full moon eclipse and more subdued mood. … Continue reading “Weekend Love Forecast – ROAR For Fun, It’s A Game!”

Is Venus Conjunct Saturn in a Composite Chart Good?

Riley asks: “Just out of curiosity, would having a Venus/Saturn conjunction in a composite chart be something that can be a positive thing? Because I always read that Venus/Saturn is challenging. But also I’ve read that it could mean “stability.” Do you have any thoughts on this particular aspect with regards to composite charts?” Yes … Continue reading “Is Venus Conjunct Saturn in a Composite Chart Good?”

Love And The Black Box Theory

ujI did a series of videos on synastry once, they start here: The Main Techniques Work, But Not Really! I talk about the limits of the various astrological technique when it comes to judging compatibility between two people. You may be able to see a clash of wills or a clash of tastes or an … Continue reading “Love And The Black Box Theory”

Aries Opposite Libra In A Natal Chart: Ambivalent About Love

Hi, Elsa. I have a ton of paradox in my chart in the form of oppositions of Aries and Libra. I want to be in relationship / I want to be the most independent I can be! What are some keys to resolving astrological paradox? Do many of us “sign up for” of “choose” charts … Continue reading “Aries Opposite Libra In A Natal Chart: Ambivalent About Love”

Uranus in Taurus: When The Steadfast Bulls Snaps!

My post about feeling shame and humiliation was better understood than I could have hoped for.   The comments are interesting. You can check them out below.  But right now I want to talk about Uranus in Venus-ruled Taurus. Taurus is known to be steady and reliable. I have Taurus in my 4th house. Deep down, … Continue reading “Uranus in Taurus: When The Steadfast Bulls Snaps!”

How to Handle Pluto in the 7th House – Video

Pluto in the 7th house can be an explosive situation. There’s potential for drama, manipulation, and betrayal, to name a few. So how on earth do you deal with it? Do you project your shadow? What’s in your 7th house?  About Midara Midara has been a working astrologer for over a decade. Combining this with … Continue reading “How to Handle Pluto in the 7th House – Video”

Deep Feelings Of Shame & Humiliation

I have felt intensely deep feelings of shame and humiliation over these last couple of days. The fury of it all has taken me aback. I can’t even recall the last time I felt shame(d) to this degree. I would have been decades ago.  I may even have been a teenager! I feel this peaked, yesterday. … Continue reading “Deep Feelings Of Shame & Humiliation”

Families Fall Apart After Matriarch Or Patriarch Dies

It’s a common phenomena.  The matriarch or the patriarch of a family passes and the family unravels.  I knew a mother who died, leaving her husband and four sons behind.  The men never realized she was what held them together and helped them relate to each other.   When she left the picture each man … Continue reading “Families Fall Apart After Matriarch Or Patriarch Dies”